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		<title>First Query</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jul 2011 02:44:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tonight, I finished writing my first query. After completing my novel on February 8, I took a detour through life. On March 11, the Great Earthquake of Northeastern Japan changed many lives forever. My elderly mother came to stay with me in New York, where she met my father over half a century ago. Like [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tonight, I finished writing my first query. After completing my novel on February 8, I took a detour through life. On March 11, the Great Earthquake of Northeastern Japan changed many lives forever. My elderly mother came to stay with me in New York, where she met my father over half a century ago. Like all necessary detours, this one has strewn my path with gifts of wisdom. As I closed the envelope containing my query, I felt ready to conquer the world.</p>
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		<title>Intelligence</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jul 2011 04:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Valentina de Portu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We now know there are many different kinds of intelligence. The concept of the intelligence quotient (IQ) seems rather limited, today, to describe a person’s mental abilities. Howard Gardner’s research on multiple intelligences and Daniel Goleman’s work on emotional intelligence alone open our minds to vastly more powerful ways of looking at ourselves and others. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We now know there are many different kinds of intelligence. The concept of the intelligence quotient (IQ) seems rather limited, today, to describe a person’s mental abilities. Howard Gardner’s research on multiple intelligences and Daniel Goleman’s work on emotional intelligence alone open our minds to vastly more powerful ways of looking at ourselves and others. Not to mention the work of Freud and Jung on the subconscious.</p>
<p>The root of the word intelligence is the verb “to grasp” in Latin. A limited intelligence means a failure to grasp. I am convinced that you can grow your intelligence, in fact that life constantly teaches you to do just that—if you let it.</p>
<p>My training initially placed a great emphasis on formal education and ideas. Such training habituated me to think logically, inquisitively, and conceptually. I can take any problem and break it down into its components, after which I generally solve it.</p>
<p>Life had other invaluable lessons in store for me. It taught me to be streetwise, which is defined in the Merriam-Webster as “possessing the skills and attitudes necessary to survive in a difficult or dangerous situation or environment.” How well we navigate reality corresponds to the degree in which we are able to gauge who people are and what they are likely to do, realistically, without judgement or expectations.</p>
<p>I’m convinced each person has a unique perspective and so I always listen to what someone says, no matter who it is. Over the course of my life, I’ve discovered it’s one thing to have intelligence and apply it, and it’s another, much more powerful thing to keep developing your intelligence.</p>
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		<title>Conscientiousness</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jun 2011 04:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Conscientiousness is one of my top values and one of the qualities I most appreciate in others. Conscientiousness means paying attention to detail, checking things twice, and following up on what you do. It means taking responsibility for your actions, knowing what is important, and never leaving anything of importance to chance. Conscientiousness means being [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Conscientiousness is one of my top values and one of the qualities I most appreciate in others.</p>
<p>Conscientiousness means paying attention to detail, checking things twice, and following up on what you do. It means taking responsibility for your actions, knowing what is important, and never leaving anything of importance to chance.</p>
<p>Conscientiousness means being present in all that you do.</p>
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		<title>Tribute to Japan</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 May 2011 04:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In a rare personal note on this blog dedicated to my consulting and coaching work, I pay tribute to Japan—my country of maternal origin and the country of my birth. The recent disaster in Fukushima has wrenched the gut of all those who love Japan and its people. One of the things I love most [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In a rare personal note on this blog dedicated to my consulting and coaching work, I pay tribute to Japan—my country of maternal origin and the country of my birth.</p>
<p>The recent disaster in Fukushima has wrenched the gut of all those who love Japan and its people.</p>
<p>One of the things I love most about the Japanese is their relentless dedication to doing the right thing—what they perceive as the right thing to do.</p>
<p>It means returning an envelope filled with cash found on the street; taking no more than an individual portion of what is handed out by disaster relief workers if more is available; keeping a public place as clean, when you use it, as if you were in your own home.</p>
<p>These are some of the reasons I will never forget the time I lived in Japan over two decades ago, and why I continue to miss the kindness of its people.</p>
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		<title>Three Behaviors of a Good Manager</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Mar 2011 10:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here are three rules whose importance I’ve learned over time, through experience, and from either side of the managerial equation. #3 Respect others’ time. Plan, plan, plan. Give your direct reports a game plan that they will implement. Give them an objective, the means to achieve it, and a timeline. Never assume that you can [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;">Here are three rules whose importance I’ve learned over time, through experience, and from either side of the managerial equation.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>#3 Respect others’ time.</strong> Plan, plan, plan. Give your direct reports a game plan that they will implement. Give them an objective, the means to achieve it, and a timeline. Never assume that you can drop an assignment on someone, even a junior employee. You are running a company, not a fire department or an emergency room. In a functional office environment, interference happens, but it is not the norm.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>#2 Be accessible.</strong> To give your direct reports the means to achieve objectives, you must provide them with plenty of opportunities to come to you for information, clarification, and counsel. After all, if your employees implement the objectives you’ve set, what is <em>your</em> job if it isn’t to guide them?</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>#1 Devote yourself to your best managers.</strong> Go against the notion that the creaky wheel gets the oil. That is a recipe for mediocrity. If you are the commander of a fleet, your best managers are the captains of the fleet’s vessels. Without them, the fleet won’t move in the right direction. Spend time with your captains; go over their challenges and solutions; help them to fulfill their potential. Be a great manager.</p>
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		<title>Mission Accomplished</title>
		<link>http://valentinadeportu.com/2011/02/hooray/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Feb 2011 16:02:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I completed the manuscript of my novel on the morning of February 8, 2011. It shares its birthday with Jules Verne and James Dean. After nine months of sustained work, this was a much anticipated moment.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I completed the manuscript of my novel on the morning of February 8, 2011. It shares its birthday with Jules Verne and James Dean. After nine months of sustained work, this was a much anticipated moment.</p>
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		<title>Halloween 2010</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2010 02:51:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Valentina de Portu</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[A Dog's Life in NYC]]></category>

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<div id="attachment_1640" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 235px"><a href="http://valentinadeportu.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/IMG_3838.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1640" title="IMG_3838" src="http://valentinadeportu.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/IMG_3838-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Anywhere but here</p></div>
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<div id="attachment_1639" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 235px"><a href="http://valentinadeportu.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/IMG_3831.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1639" title="IMG_3831" src="http://valentinadeportu.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/IMG_3831-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Do I have to stay like this for long?</p></div>
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<div id="attachment_1641" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://valentinadeportu.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/IMG_3844.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1641" title="IMG_3844" src="http://valentinadeportu.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/IMG_3844-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Happy Halloween</p></div>
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		<title>Benjamin</title>
		<link>http://valentinadeportu.com/2010/10/benjamin/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Oct 2010 02:47:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_1635" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 235px"><a href="http://valentinadeportu.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/IMG_3803.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1635" title="IMG_3803" src="http://valentinadeportu.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/IMG_3803-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Balancing act</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1636" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 235px"><a href="http://valentinadeportu.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/IMG_3785.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1636" title="IMG_3785" src="http://valentinadeportu.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/IMG_3785-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Peek-a-boo</p></div>
<p style="text-align: center;">&nbsp;</p>
<div id="attachment_1634" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://valentinadeportu.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/IMG_0130.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1634 " title="IMG_0130" src="http://valentinadeportu.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/IMG_0130-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Deep sleep</p></div>
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		<title>Our Anthology, Book of the Month in the U.K.</title>
		<link>http://valentinadeportu.com/2010/10/our-anthology-book-of-the-month-in-the-u-k/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Oct 2010 14:33:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[British literary review The Truth About Books has named Voice From the Planet, our international short-story anthology, its Book of the Month for October 2010. Voice From the Planet is available at Amazon.com.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>British literary review<em> The Truth About Books </em>has named <em>Voice From the Planet,</em> our international short-story anthology, its Book of the Month for October 2010.</p>
<p><em>Voice From the Planet </em>is available at <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Voice-Planet-Charles-Degelman/dp/0615367321/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1286721128&amp;sr=1-1">Amazon.com.</a></p>
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		<title>Voice From the Planet</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Oct 2010 13:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Voice From the Planet, an international short-story anthology edited by Harvard alumni, premieres today on Amazon.com. My short story Remordimiento is one of thirty pieces having emanated from writers in the U.S., Latin America, Western and Eastern Europe, and Africa.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Voice From the Planet,</em> an international short-story anthology edited by Harvard alumni, premieres today on <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Voice-Planet-Charles-Degelman/dp/0615367321/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1286721128&amp;sr=1-1">Amazon.com.</a></p>
<p>My short story <em>Remordimiento</em> is one of thirty pieces having emanated from writers in the U.S., Latin America, Western and Eastern Europe, and Africa.</p>
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